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Thursday, November 8, 2012

每个人要的爱与幸福不同。

突然被这样的思绪堵住我的脑,被这样的思绪波动我的泪海……

刚刚看到朋友的姐姐与她男友的合照,看起来应该是求婚照,她应该20出头吧……
然后看了我妹与她男友的合照,心想每个人在每个阶层所需和所追求的爱情与幸福感不同。

中学时期,我们需要自以为可以永久的爱情,每天发发脾气,撒撒娇,约约会,传简讯,打电话,这种爱带给中学时期的我们强烈的幸福感。

大学时期,我们开始变得现实,我们需要稳重,可靠的爱情,不是自以为,而是他让你以为可以永久的爱情,你们每天在一起,开始过老夫老妻的生活,偶尔花花大钱去旅行,你看过他挖鼻孔的糗样,他听过你放屁放得很大声,老夫老妻的生活带给我们一种安全感,那种安全感就等于幸福感。

那么在这时候的爱情分为两种:

一种是没机会升上大学又或者是自己不想升大学,靠自己双手打拼事业的英雄们,他们的爱情比其他来得早,来得快,他们就是属于年轻结婚族,20出头就找到属于自己的另一半,有着自己的宝宝,过着他们幸福的日子。那样的爱情,简单得很美。

另一种是必须花时间读大学,苦苦读5,6年甚至8,9年的人们,
这一种人又分为三种,
第一种在大学里找个女朋友,她陪他,他陪她度过了漫长的读书年,他们的爱不假,但毕业后,他们分别娶和嫁给别人。那种爱情,是回忆,是陪伴,是甜蜜,是守护,是照顾,是依赖,但不是未来。他们也很幸福,只是那种幸福换了一个形式。
第二种在大学里没有恋爱,也许忙着读书,也许忙着玩乐,也许遇不到那个对的人,就一直单身单身单身,把岁月都花在爱自己,他们的幸福等到毕业后才寻找。他们把这种爱视为投资,投资自己,把自己变成更好的人。
第三种当然是最幸福的,在大学时期找到那个标榜着“我是你的未来”的人,他们一起度过了每个艰难,无聊,简单,刺激……所有酸甜苦辣的日子,然后他们一起步入人生的另一个阶段,他们也有可爱的宝宝,也过着幸福的日子。这种爱叫坚持,叫忍耐,叫包容,叫成熟。

当然无可否认,可有人从中学就在一起,经历大学,工作的阶层,度过重重的改变,自己的改变,对方的改变,环境的改变,谈话的改变,社会的改变,依然深爱着对方的你们,很幸福。这种爱是深爱。他们的幸福由始至终都属于对方的。他们是对方的另一半,所以他们是完整的。

幸福很难。爱很难。但不代表我们要放弃追求幸福,不代表我们不能再爱。
每个人要的爱与幸福不同。
我只能说我很幸福,太多人等着我去爱。我很忙!哈哈 ><



洋葱妹
^^v

Sunday, October 21, 2012

I was too boring today...
*actually I was STRESS*
And Halloween is coming,so I decided to draw something on my face...
A lot of people like to make up as a zombie/vampire,I think of doing that too but I did it two years ago,so today I wanna do something different.
*TA-DAAHHHH

*Watch out !* 

*That stare*




I hope you guys still like me after looking at all these photos... LOL ;)

Enough for the scary face...Let's act CUTE ;)


Hope you guys "ENJOY" it ^^
Love you guys <3


 P/s:
After I finish taking picture,I decided to scare my sis,cz she coming back from volleyball training...
And I actually scared her,I took a video of her shock face...It's funny,I cnt stop laughing ;)
I am glad I have a sister,the one who you can "play" with.muahahaha.
I LOVE YOU sis! ^^




 Love  ,
Sexyonion


Wednesday, October 3, 2012

1st celebration of my 20th Bitchday : 7atenine



Got my name on it! Yes I am Ms Yap ;P
7atenine, awesome restaurant and not that expensive ^^








I LOVE the environment there! is like super super super awesome !!!!
Thinking of going AGAIN!
When we asking for bill that time,the waiter told us we can have 6 drinks for FREE! Yay ^^v
And when we paying that time,we were like OMG Why so cheap?
We laugh like 38 po. Keep smiling ni...
'cause it's very worthy!

P/s: I find these photos from the internet.



Fries~ got some cheese on top

This taste like char bihun. Super nice but oily. * the shrimp super fresh!

Beef pizza!
After finishing all this food... (actually we cnt finish it,we force ourselves to fnsh it)
and yea we were full like stomach gonna burst soon!

And HERE COMES THE CAKE!
Gosh,are you kidding me?!

but...but...but... this cake look so yummy and it's BASKIN ROBBINS cake!
And we became monster...
3 of us finish the whole damn cake. LOL. (Girls~)
Just because girls got another stomach for dessert.Guys probably cnt fnsh it~

Officially 20. 
No longer teenager anymore.

Me me me!

My lady.

LOVE

Meant to be.
♥♥♥

I still rmb, we used to be a Japanese & Korean (Tht's what they said)
Are we still look like Japanese & Korean? LOL
I don't wanna know the answer.kthxbye! hehe

OOTD


♥Thks my love ♥


Thks for being my BFF
Thks for being there for me 
Thks for the awesome celebration
Thks for growing up together with me

I Love You,more than words.






7atenine

ascott kuala lumpur
no. 9, jalan pinang
50450 kuala lumpur, malaysia
+6012 210 3055
Click here to know more about 7atenine!

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

致:小学同学,中学同学,大学同学


一想到你们陪我一起成长,心里就还蛮激动的说。
或许你们以为我把你们给忘了,有些事我不说你们又怎么会懂呢,对吧?
我珍惜所有的一切,或许我不会表达,但如果你看到了,就是你了。
谢谢你们陪我一路走来,我爱你们。<3


P/s:虽恶心,但绝对真心。



人一辈子能遇见多少个真心对你好,想你过得好的人?
我真的很快乐,很满足,很幸福。
我的爱人常常说我怎么那么容易满足,但,也许这就是我。
我总觉得我什么都不缺,有一次妈咪出国玩,问我需要什么,我跟她说我什么都不缺,你们玩得开心,安全地回来就好了。[我真他妈的懂事]哈!
不懂我的人,心里一定想:这女的真是他妈的虚伪!
你不懂我,我不怪你。=D
我很少,应该是说我从来没对我家人和双胞胎儿以外的人表示过我对他们的爱。
但打从心底,我是真的很珍惜每一段友谊,每一次的废话。哈哈。

我不说名字,因为说名字就真的太虚假了。[另外,你可以找找你属于哪一类的!]

我有很要好的小学同学,懂我的小学同学,一起陪我乱哈拉的小学同学。

中学时,我有一起经历各种比赛的同学,有亦敌亦友的同学,有一起准备比赛的同学,有翻过脸我却又不记得的同学,有一起干疯狂事的同学,有一起走路去补习的同学,有认我做干妹妹的同学,有一起烦恼每天要吃什么的同学,有一起聊八卦的同学,有一起上云顶的同学,有一起翘课的同学。

毕业后,有一起喝酒的同学,有一起打lami的同学,有一起赌博的同学,有一起讨论时尚的同学,有一起游车河的同学,有网上认识的同学。

大学,我有督促我读书的同学,有陪我看透世界的朋友,有一起打扮美美出去的同学,有一起读书party的同学,有借我笔记的同学,有帮我渡过难关的同学,有陪我聊心事的同学,有常常关心我的同学,有煮东西给我吃的同学,有借我buspass的同学,有陪我聊音乐的同学,有陪我逛街的同学,有特地为我庆祝生日的同学,有不管距离多远都会问候我的同学,有互相亏对方的同学,有一起追巴士的同学,有帮我说话的同学。

太多太多我珍惜的人。
我真希望你们都知道我有多么感谢你们成为我的朋友。
感恩合十 嘻嘻^^v







Thursday, September 13, 2012

那首歌


总有那么一首歌,你不敢听。
因为你不敢回首那一段情。
那段曾属于你最快乐的时光。


P/s:那个我们还是一样。但这个我是我,而这个你也只会是你。





Friday, September 7, 2012

洋葱妹之今日言


我一直相信,有一天我心目中的那个他会出现,而我那么刚巧是他心目中的那个她。
然后我们相爱着……



Friday, August 10, 2012

Read this if you're a TEENAGER.


16岁的时候,你以为朋友大过天。
17岁毕业了,你以为去泡大过天。
18岁需自己生活,你开始发现,朋友一个个远离你,日日泡到心身疲惫,渐渐地,你什么都没有得到,你觉得生命没有意义,你开始感到迷失,无助
19岁只能靠自己,你开始后悔,懊恼。

一个人生活的时候,你才深深体会到,全世界,只有家人不会远离你。
一个人生活的时候,你才发现,与家人相聚的日子是最可贵的。
一个人生活的时候,你才想起那些曾经,忽略了父母亲,忽略了亲人的那些曾经。可惜的是,时光并不会倒流。面对那些曾经,你除了遗憾还是遗憾。

但,有多少人能庆幸挨过这些时光。
趁你还是十多岁的时候,多想想
即时你多么不想,多么不稀罕;我奉劝你一句:硬着头皮做吧,因为如果你听父母的话,你常陪他们,我敢保证,未来的未来,你。不。会。后。悔。
对父母,无论在什么情况下,多给他们一份尊重。
尊重,也是一种爱。


如果你爱他们,请尊重他们。

P/s:

因为爱你,才一再忍让。
因为爱你,才忍气吞声。
因为爱你,随传随到。
因为爱你,没有怨言。
因为爱你,小心呵护。
因为爱你,付出所有。
因为爱你,才教育你。
如果这一切,不是因为爱,根本不会对你加以理会,也无需为了你而气死自己。


不要把别人的爱,当作是理所当然。
不要把别人的付出,当作是自愿。
不要把别人的话,当作耳边风。


有些事,真的一次就够了。一次都不要让它发生,因为后果是你根本没办法补偿的。
后悔莫及。



爱你们的我,
卄。

Annual outing with my moon ♥♥♥

♥Levain♥
Dessert is LOVE

My pretty girl ;)

Last min make up face =.=

Playing with the FOCUS.


Us


♥ Our BFF ribbon hairband ♥





Acting cute ;) * LOLOLOLOL



Naise~~~


RM3 for two^^

We had this for FREE!  

 After that,we had our late lunch/early dinner in SAKAE SUSHI.
Super cheap!!!

Urban young adult (no more TEENAGER~SobSob) like to take pic with food.
So do we.


P/s:

Glad to have her as my BFF.
She always there for me whenever I feel down,sad or emo.
Such a naise and gorgeous girl ;)



Oh,and one last thing... A lot of people ask me what camera I used...
TADAAAA~~~!

Sony NEX-F3
Welcome to YAP family ;)

*easy to use*
*light*
*naise-white*
*look cool*
*16.1 megapixel*
*180 degree screen*
*etc* muahahaha....


You're my moon.♥♥♥
xoxo
Onion ;P

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Le Romanza Ampang♥

As I promised,here I am to post about Le Romanza & my mum birthday ;)


The Entrance~
This restaurant is just right beside Victoria Station...


I love the environment there...super romantic...

 
Mum's Cocktail...It cost RM 56~! 
And honestly this taste like FEVER SYRUP~ so not worth it...

  
Hoho,Starter~!

 This is free...Bread and eat with chilli oil...quite unique!
I like spicy so this is nice for me... ;)

 
Wild Mushroom Risotto
Served with goat’s cheese croquettes, pan-fried simiji mushrooms with a crisps mushroom and truffle tortellini finished with a lemon infuse hollandaise.

: This is awesome!

 This soup...err...Very not Asian so we dont really like it...
It is weird for us~

This is Fruit + some kind of sour ice on top...
It is for you to clear the taste in ur mouth...
It is nice just that we dont know it is sour,and we eat like a boss...
then...this is the reaction we get from my grandpa ^^
SOUR!!!(He is cute,isn't he?)
Little sis : It is nice (but the face still....SOUR!!!)

 Ostrich Fan Fillet
Served with tequila marinated rasins, butternut puree, pomme anna and seasonal vegetables with minted yogurt.

: This is yummy,just if you dare to try~!
Never realise Ostrich can be so yummy (I feel that I am so cruel *sobsob*)

 
8 Hour Slow Braised Lamb Shank
Served with roasted garlic infused pomme puree, crushed minted peas, mixed berry compote and braising jus finished with seasonal vegetables.

: If you don't like the LAMB smell,you will hate this...
I love it,so I think it is nice!

Duck Duck Duck!
I dont really like duck so i didnt try this...But they said N-I-C-E~~~

 
Ngek ngek ngek,my favourite time! DESSERT TIME!!!

 
Chocolate Landscape
A lot of people introduce this...but we dont really like it...
And it cost ard RM40,not worth.
I prefer another one...

We all prefer this! I forgot what this call...
Some MANGO thg on top then the white thg is conense milk~
THUMBS UP!!!

OK~NOW Camwhore session!

Family photo after months :P
We are happy family ;)

Someone too short,we have to ACT SHORT to balance~!!
(She still wearing HEELS!!!)

Camwhore in the car~!
with my two pretty sis~♥

♥The Birthday lady♥

Like her outfit?
Then I think you will like me...(as in styling) LOL...

Little adult~!

Three of us with Grandpa ;)

Grandpa is dreaming...haha

Do Re Mi~ Haha...
Mummy,your girls are home now ;)

That dress my mum wore is from NEW LOOK and it cost only RM50~
Worth! (Cz the quality is good)
Oh,And I love my heels ;)
It is so my style ^^




 Sweet to the MAX~!


I am mei mei,she is jie jie~ haha

Oppsy,Sorry I am too tall... LOL

 Err...

CUTE!!!

With the Manager^^
He is so cuteeeeeeeeee

Le Husband and Wife
 
I love to have a picture of 5 of us tgtr!!!
I feel COMPLETE~!

That is COMPLETE,this is PERFECT~!
But my grandma can't go with us that day,coz she was too tired...
Grandma,get well soon! then we go makan "HO LIAO"!!!

Le two girls and Le one they miss so much!



OniOn